if i’m dealing with a nigga and i’m feeling him or whatever…. a huge deal breaker for me would be hearing him talk shit about other black women. like i don’t care how cute u are or how great u suck my titties or how great ur stroke game is. dissing black women is like dissing my mother, my sisters etc. A L S O if u dissing us and ur a black man it’s clearly evident to me that u don’t love urself so how can u ever learn to love M E ? ? ?